El Paso Texas palmer
If you have arid type weather you need desert type palm trees. There are a few that are grown in the area of elpaso, well houston and dallas as well. The medjool date palm, pindo palm, canary island date palm, true date palm, beaked yucca, blue hesper palm, and a couple of other ones, but out of that list you should be able to find something that suits your landscape. I personally like to look at medjools because they make a grand appearance in front yards lining the garage or driveway.
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