Since I have the most success with benign neglect, I left the palm alone except for generous watering (really, really not overwatered; it responded very nicely to lots to drink).
Then a few days ago I trimmed off dead fronds and stems. I think one of the original four stems is dead, or nearly so. I'm going to let the trimmed stem sit in the pot for a while to see if any new shoots appear.
Meanwhile, two newish shoots are starting to erupt and are looking good. A couple of the old ones are still sort of hanging in there, with just a few leaves left on the old stems but looking healthier than before. Don't you just love transplant shock?
So now another couple weeks of patient near-neglect and I'll see how it's doing. I'm optimistic so far.
